Judy Ann Flemke, 66, of East Hampton, beloved wife of Thomas Allen Flemke Sr. died unexpectedly at home on Thursday October 18, 2018 Judy was born July 22, 1952 in Middletown, daughter of the late Dorothy Galica and Godfrey Sandstrom. Judy grew up in Portland and after marrying Tom moved to East Hampton where they made their home and raised their family. Judy loved spending time with family and friends particularly playing Bingo and Poker and was famous for her bacon wrapped water chestnuts at picnics and parties. Judy also enjoyed watching UCONN Women’s Basketball and the Boston Red Sox. Judy had a HUGE heart despite it being so damaged from years of cardiac issues and only having ¾ of it.
In addition to her husband Tom, Judy is survived by the pride and joys of her life; her daughter; Tina (Matthew) Lanzi and son Thomas (Marcy) Flemke Jr. of East Hampon, and grandchildren Patrick Callis, Madeline and Emma Lanzi, and Katelyn and Dale Flemke. Judy also leaves a void in the hearts of her sisters Cherie (John) Zabiski of Portland and Elaine Smith of Middletown, mother-in-law Ruth Flemke, sister-in-law Diane Humphrey, brother-in-law Leonard (Lisa) Flemke, special cousins Dr. Lewis (Maureen) Labbadia, Carl Labbadia, and Kathleen Labbadia, very special friends Cathie Slack and Linda DeFrancesco, and several nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents, Judy was also predeceased by her aunt Mildred Labbadia and sister-in-law Sandra Peszynski.
Funeral services will be held Tuesday October 23rd at 11:00am at Spencer Funeral Home, 112 Main St., East Hampton. Calling hours will be Monday October 22nd from 5-8pm. Spencer Funeral Home has care of the arrangements. Special thanks to Dr. Michael Good, Dr, Kevin Tally, Dr. Jeffrey Kluger and their staffs. Those who wish may send memorial contributions in Judy’s name to the East Hampton Ambulance Association P.O. Box 144 East Hampton, CT 06424 or the Sandy Peszynski Breast Cancer Foundation 93 East High St. East Hampton, CT 06424.