Benjamin Talcott Lord, 83, of East Hampton, passed away February 18, 2017 at Rocky Hill Veteran’s Hospital. He was born in Willimantic, CT, son of the late Isabelle and Benjamin Lord. He was married to his high school sweetheart Marion Youngs for 59 years,. He is survived by his three children Sharon Furman and husband Thomas, Jeff Lord and wife Susan and youngest Susan Mary Lord. He leaves four grandchildren Melissa Coature and husband Bryan, Meghan Lord and partner David Vadney, Elizabeth Hyde, Daniel Hyde and partner Amanda Godwin. He also leaves behind three step grandchildren Danielle, Matthew and Kristin Hadjstylianos and one step great grandchild Isabella Ciarlglio. He is survived by his beloved brother David Lord and wife Joan and their children David Lord, Jennifer and David Harrison and their children Ben, Sydney, Skylar and Willow. He leaves behind his loving great grandchildren Will, Adaline and Isabelle Coature, Natalie and Jack Vadney. He also leaves his good and faithful friend Billy Tyre from Florida. Ben was a member of the Fellowship Church, a former Police Commissioner and member of the original town charter commission in east Hampton. He was a member of the VFW Post 5095 for over 50 years, District 6 Commander, CT Commander 1999-2000 and many other state offices. He served his country in the Army for four years. Ben loved hunting, golf and the Red Sox, but mostly enjoyed his large family and many friends. When Ben became sick he was dearly cared for by his children and wife, son-in-law Tom and his “best pal” Daniel Hyde. A special thanks to Sue for all the wonderful food, Cathy Lyman and Jay Scatlen for always being there. The family wishes to thank the Rocky Hill staff and C-upper for your exceptional care, empathy and attention to our father. It meant more than you know. Friends may call at the Spencer Funeral Home 112 Main St. East Hampton on Thursday Feb. 23^rd from 5PM until 6PM. A Memorial service will be held at 6PM. Burial will be private. To leave online condolences please visit www.spencerfuneralhomeinc.com.

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